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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"Friend" of people in a situation like this. FYI, we pretend it's normal to not cause drama, but we all feel sorry for her for being so naive and needy, and feel like he is a complete douchebag. [/quote]

+1.  Cheated upon ex-wife here.  To his new wife, it appears the kids and I and my extended family are fine with the situation, because we are all polite to him and continue to include him in all events.  The reality is that everyone thinks he's a jerk and are sad for the kids that he makes so many excuses to not fully live up to his responsibilities with them.  Kids, of course, would never say anything negative to his face, because they don't want to lose him entirely, but they also think he's irresponsible.

I feel sort of sorry for the new wife.  Long after he and I broke up, he started to date the new wife.  I have absolute proof that he was cheating on her extensively while they were dating, but I can't tell her.  It puts me in an awkkward position.  If I told her about the cheating, she would never believe me.  Plus, it would make child support and his continued relationship with the kids difficult.

So, I just paste on a smile and pretend everything is good.

But, don't mistake the outward superficial appearance that people are behaving normally to you to be a real reflection of their feelings toward you.  Don't mistake that for the idea that peoe are happy for you, have any respect for you, think that your marriage will last, etc.  [/quote]

Okay, this one I have to hear. How do you have absolute proof he was cheating on her? Also, if it’s over, she may know and it may not matter anyway.[/quote]

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