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If you want to have more sex, first you have to not want to have more sex. It's very Zen. [/quote]

DP that left a sexless marriage. I tried this too. It works for a few months in that it kept me sane, it didn’t increSe our lovemaking. At all. a husband and wife should have sex and come together enough to keep the cracks out of their marriage. Sometimes your personal zen just isn’t enough. It all depends on the couple. My zen made him feel like, “whew! Now I don’t need to have sex so she won’t be so disappointed anymore.” :roll:[/quote]

Yeah, I was just being sarcastic with the Zen comment. The advice on how to address a libido gap in a marriage usually ends up being a trick bag. If you want to have more sex, you have to do all this stuff. But if you do all that stuff because you want to have more sex, it doesn't count. [/quote]

DP - It goes both ways, and finding a balance that works for both partners is tricky. There are spouses who put out sexually but are completely unsatisfied otherwise in other aspects of the relationship. Sex isn’t the only primal that needs to be satisfied.[/quote]

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