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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No.   Cry myself to sleep when my husband goes to sleep and never reaches over to touch me.  It hurts more when we have watched a romantic movie or have a little buzz.  I daydream about old boyfriends all the time to help me get through, but it makes me sadder.  I just want to be desired. [/quote]

Hugs. This was me for several years of an 11 year marriage. We tried counseling, watching videos, trips away, doctor visits even rX, checked T levels, checked for depression. Eventually divorced and after duking it out a bit during the divorce, we are good friends. And good parents. I cannot live a life untouched and unloved. I have a high sex drive his was lower. He kind of covered it up when we were dating by always pawing me down so I thought I had a winning ticket. But once we were married — nothing. I felt how men do when their wives have the comfort of family and just don’t care for affection as much.

He later admitted fault for his role and regret at not trying to do his part to preserve what was good. I never cheated. I masterbated a lot but it just made me resentful, which made him defensive. [/quote]

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