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[quote=Anonymous]So the above PP who was having regular sex, albeit duty sex, with his wife, was eye opening to me. I could have been your wife. I’m a married woman who’s lost pretty much all interest in sex over 15 years with my DH. It’s not his fault. I don’t reject him for sex - I love him and I understand sex is a required component of a marriage - but I have no real desire for sex anymore. Does that make it duty sex? I guess. But it IS an act of love for him. I do love him and I don’t resent that he wants sex. I don’t demand that he get it over with, but not do I put on a big porn star show about it. What I do resent sometimes, is that like you, he always wants more. Not so much more frequency (like I said I don’t reject him), but more excitement, more passion, more of me initiating, more positions, toys... like he has unrealistic expectations of long-married sex and that whatever I do isn’t enough. Makes me wonder sometimes why I bother. [/quote]
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