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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Cheating PP, if you’re so convicted your wife knows what you’re up to, why would it blow up her life or blow up the marriage to get it out in the open? Both of you obviously have reasons to stay married, would it not be a relief to not have to pretend anymore? [/quote]

=1.  Cheater, you argue that any reasonably intelligent woman in the same circumstance as your wife would know her DH was cheating, so therefore your wife must know you are cheating.  If that is true, why do you refuse to talk to her about it?  I mean, she already knows and must not care so why not talk to her about it?  You can just tell her when you are meeting up with the AP and not worry about sneaking around or lying.[/quote]

Just how do you imagine this conversation? "Btw, I've outsourced my sex needs since you don't seem inclined to meet them"?  Why? Millions of men and women have had this arrangement for thousands of years and it is the unspoken rule that you never ever discuss this.  What would this accomplish? I mean it seems his wife has made it extremely clear she doesn't want to talk about their sex life. [/quote]

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