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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I cheated, caught an STD, may end up divorced now anyway.  In retrospect, I should have put 100% into the marriage and then left.  I totally understand the state of mind of complete sexual starvation, and I put in a lot of effort to get things rolling for years, and years.  But now, in hindsight, with everything unraveling, it would have been better to have the cataclysmic conversation of we need to fix this or else its over than to be where we both are now.

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Why the change of view?  Do you have more empathy for your wife and how she feels right now or is it more about you feeling bad?
I guess from my perspective, affair is not fair to the wife and men here argue that point.  Wondering  about your perspective on that point during the affair and after discovery.
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A sexless wife though is not deserving of any empathy when her husband (of course!) finds sex elsewhere. This is 100% fair treatment and honestly there are literally no other options. Surely you cannot argue that a sexless wife deserves fidelity.... that is cray cray. [/quote]

Sex jail is horrible. [/quote]

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