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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate my husband’s fat body. Almost every night I have dreams about running my hands and mouth along the bodies of men with muscles and six packs (those are the dreams safe for non-explicit, anyway). It depresses me that I can never do that again in real life. [/quote]

Talk to him about it, using the nicest language possible.

My gf told me recently that I had gotten too fat and was becoming unattractive to her.  That lit a fire under my ass.

Started IF and switched to keto the next day.  Started going to the gym again.  Down 10 lbs so far.  Sex is better.  Crush her less with my weight.  Better stamina.  Better able to maintain certain positions.

It's his job to keep himself fit for you, as it is your job to keep yourself fit for him.  Show him this post.

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I did the same thing with my husband, who struggles with his weight. He now works out all the time and has dropped easily 30 lbs. (probably has 20 to go). I routinely encourage him by telling him how hot he's looking. I even agreed to have sex with him more than usual if he does a certain number of workouts per week. :) It seems to be working!

Oh and I try to keep up my end of things -- I watch what I eat, buy nice new clothes, etc. I bought some lingerie for Valentine's Day for him.

It's up to each person to keep the fire going in a relationship!  [/quote]

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