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[quote=Anonymous]A woman here. Was about to suggest what seemed to start working for you.

You were too soft and didn't act like a man. You complain, wife cries, life goes back to normal with you jumping out of your skin for her. She thinks it wasn't such a big deal and everything is great again in your marriage.

I was about to suggest moving out of your bedroom. No sex, you are inconvenienced in terms of TV... Your actions will make her understand your feelings. If you keep inviting her on dates, texting her and bringing soup....well it shows that you love her still the same so no sex is no big deal.

So if you are feeling distant, behave like it. Seems to be working.

I am married to a testosterony jerk (well he never brought me soup to bed and certainly did me no favors when we were fighting or he was upset), and our sex sizzles. When we get to having it, I never say no because I can't resist. 17 years of marriage and five kids, I am 43, he is older, and does almost nothing to help with the kids or the household.

I am not saying you should become a jerk, but grow a backbone and act, don't just talk and write letters.

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