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Op here. I will be 35 when I graduate, not 36. I am honestly fine with having 1-2 kids. We plan to start in a year. I may be in a new marriage, but from reading on here, some of you are married 10+ years without a solid marriage. I will take my chances. I will not let anyone force me into something as major as having a child before I am ready.[/quote]

I am the "Honestly..." poster. Something in your timeline doesn't add up. You said you just turned 33, will start the 2 year program next fall at almost 34, and therefore will be almost 36 by the time you graduate. But I guess you'll get pregnant just in time for delivery in the few months in-between graduation and your 36th birthday (you wanted your first at 35). And if it's as rigorous a program as you claim, you'll really want to be pregnant during your second year (?!). You are so naive!! 
If you are fine with just 1 kid - then you've wasted the time of a lot of people: It's not a big deal to delay by a couple of years in that case. Is your husband ok with that?
I've been with my husband for over 20 years, and we've been through plenty of tough times. You are still in the honeymoon phase.
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Op here. It you read everything, you will see where I said I mistyped. I am starting school in January 2018 and will graduate fall 2020. I will be 35. I plan to start trying for a ball in fall of 2019.[/quote]

How does this typo matter? You are now 33. So when you graduate in fall 2020, you will be almost 36. Come back and update this thread if you will actually fall pregnant in fall 2019 - I believe you will postpone pregnancy (being pregnant and completing schooling can be tough!). And you've never answered if your husband would be happy with just 1 kid.[/quote]

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