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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pp, it is not a matter of having BOTH a relationship with the APs child and your children in marriage. According to the counsellors, it is a matter of one or the other. 
Life decisions are hard. That is that. [/quote]

If the conditions of remaining in the existing marriage are to disavow the other child than the father has the 'choice' to divorce his wife and have shared custody of all his children.

That would suck for the existing wife if she wanted to reconcile but the father would have made the right decision.[/quote]
Great, destroy the lives of multiple people rather than one. Awesome. [/quote]

As PP said, life decisions are hard and actions have consequences. The harm to the children of the marriage was done when the father slept around. He has a responsibility to all the children he has fathered, not just the convenient ones.[/quote] 
That is not the consequence, that is the choice.  How do you think divorced men handle their relationship with the children from the first marriage? The child who lives with two parents will always have more of everything, even if the father is in the picture. And no one insists that men on their second marriage spend just as much time with their children from the first marriage. [/quote]

The consequence of the affair is the child. You are correct it is a choice whether or not to take responsibility for that consequence. I think anyone who chooses not to is despicable. I think a woman who encourages that choice is also despicable. [/quote]

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