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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, is it still okay ("") to abandon a child born to the OW if she didn't know her partner was married? Many posters have suggested that the wife and the children of the marriage deserve that the marriage be preserved, and that the "outside child" is less deserving because their mother made their bed by knowingly sleeping with a married man. But in the case that the woman did not know, [b]why should[/b] she and her child legitimately suffer? She, too, was deceived. [/quote]
Because stupid.  How do you not know?

No one suggested that the wife and the children of the marriage "deserve" that the marriage be preserved.  That's not really the call anyone can make except the wife.  What has been said, multiple times, is that IF spouses decide to try and rebuild the marriage, then they have the greatest chances of success where there is NO CONTACT with the affair partner.  That the marriage has very low chances of surviving if the cheating spouse stays in contact with the lover.  [/quote]

Thank you. These idealistic people seem to think that they can have it all. No one can have it all. 
BTW, people forget about the level of animosity step parents can have. Just as a guage, infanticide is common by the hands of the step parent. I am NOT implying that this is a reason to cut off contact, I am simply stating that "moving forward" with this constant reminder is a crazy fantasy in most cases. [/quote]

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