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Reply to " How to get her back? "The one that got away" recently divorced w/ 2 DC, messaged me."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, take it slowly. Spend time getting to know each other. Although you dated in the past, it was a long time ago and people change. Learn about her divorce, why it happened, what she learned from it, and what she would be looking for in a spouse. If she puts the entire blame on her ex-DH and doesn't show signs of self-awareness and what she may have contributed to the failed marriage, then run. If she does not have a cordial co-parenting relationship with her ex-DH, then run. Learn what she wants for her future. Does she want to build a career or is she simply looking to get remarried so she can continue to be a SAHM? Are you on board with having a spouse who cannot contribute financially, especially considering there would be expenses for her children in addition to any the two of you might have together?[/quote]
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