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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. Let him leave the house without telling him what to pack for baby unless he asks. He will figure it out. Nothing teaches so well as experience, nothing annoys more than nagging. Do & I have different styles, and it annoys him that I like to pack food and be prepared. He prefers to so and get food where we are. You have to let it go. They won't starve on an afternoon trip to the zoo. And he will learn about diapers and clean clothes and water and wipes. Or simply the fact that you should check the diaper bag before you walk out of the house. But you need to make it a priority to trust him to do it, and do it his way.[/quote] Very hard to do that when you, as new mom, are bent relentlessly judged for everything about your baby. Baby shows up at park with socks and there will be a thread on DCUM about who lets their infant out of the house like that.[/quote]^^ without socks obvs[/quote] Well, if it is so very important that everybody thinks you are perfect you are going to have a difficult life. Let it go. Baby is alive, safe, and not crying? Win. Who CARES what your asshole neighbor thinks?? Move to a better community.[/quote]
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