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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Np here. Today we were purchasing some home renovation materials, boxes of heavy tiles, a heavy cement board (weighs a ton) were sitting in the cart. My husband went to get one last thing while we pulled the cart into the line. I had to count some of the specialty tiles bc they were btmy the piece, and that took a while. Meanwhile, he came back with an armful of stuff just after the lady had begun checking us out and proceeded to revert mentally to his home in space... i struggled to lift these board and the 50 lb boxes out of the cart, and then looked at his and was like- "Why am I doing this?" ***Literal response: (whining, annoyed) "Why can you just tell me you need me to help?!" I looked at disbelief.."You think I should just lift all of this stuff on my own, or that I should have to tell you to help?? You dont see me struggling, you don't even bother to add 1 +1 knowing we are inline and need to check out.... I need to "tell" you??  Its so pathetic. Buying the rest of the tile online and having it delivered. 
third one, was like, "hello?? Why am I doing this?"[/quote]

So, why didn't you just ask him to help you lift?[/quote]

He was standing two feet from me watching me. [/quote]

Just because his eyes are facing your general direction you doesn't mean he is paying attention.

Next time, just ask for help. Don't expect people to preemptively react to your every need without being asked. [/quote]
NP here, his isn't a mind reading exercise. They are both purchasing these items, there's no good reason they wouldn't both be putting things on the conveyor belt. [/quote]

How does he usually check out his items?  Just stand there dumbly until the check out lady screams at him to move?  WTH? [/quote]

Yes.... he is out to lunch at any given moment. I am tired of being the to-do list.

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