Reply to Pity party: not invited to holiday party

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Pity party: not invited to holiday party"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are everyone's houses so messy?? [/quote]

That's America's dirty secret.   People buy and shop and hoard and their lives are a mess because no one taught them to be adults.   Or because both work and do not have time to clean.

Yes, people can get cleaning people but most do not think that getting their houses cleaned is more important than  botox, handbags, Brazilian, getting hair highlighted or getting nails done.   In other words, clean house is not a priority, especially when you are never hosting or reciprocating.

We are a part of a social circle where the culture is to host and reciprocate. Guess what? It means my house has to be ship shape because people are always in my house.   If I did not have anyone visiting, maybe I would have been a slob too.  Sometimes I am thankful that I have house guests because my closets and dressers actually get cleaned out in anticipation of their visit. I am also happy that my kids can call their friends over because we do not live like pigs. And trust me it is soooooo damn easy to let go and live like pigs. 
[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics