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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I would tease her about it. There was a cute guy at work who liked the same tv shows I did. I told DH about him. He knew I had a little crush on him. So he would tease me "So what did *crush* think about (tv episode)?" "Did you talk to *crush* today?"

Crush and I never texted so we never crossed any lines. But I liked that DH was cool with me having a harmless crush and that we could talk about it.

Ps-DH was never jealous because he knows and feels that I adore and love him. [/quote]

You really think the OP is an idiot? I'm sure his DW thinks the same. BTW there are a lot of reasons why your DH may not be jealous and which may have nothing to do with you.

To the OP: your DW's romantic feelings for others have no place whatsoever in your relationship and there should be no accommodation.

However, if you both discuss and agree that you want to live an open and polyamorous life, that's OK - but you need to be upfront about this before anything happens. It cannot be an adjustment after-the-fact because that means one of you will be making unfair compromises.

Unfortunately, it seems you are already headed in the wrong direction with DW pressuring you to respect her emotional exigencies and to be very cool and civilized about it (i.e. to be a sucker), 'cause we're adults hahaha its just a harmless flirty thingy...[/quote]

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