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[quote=Anonymous]NP here.
I have no idea why so many pp's are saying OP sounds needy. She wants to feel prioritized. Her reasons for not feeling prioritized seem legit to me. Fiancé NEVER planning dates but 3-5 nights a week making plans with others? And the not paying for things? 
Op has it always been this way? I'm really sorry it sounds like he is not very much into you. He also sounds a bit inconsiderate and definitely takes you for granted. But if it has been this way all along I can see why he is resistant to changing things - if it was a true problem before then why are you still there?? Sorry OP I do NOT mean to be critical of you, I am just trying to feel your fiancé's point of view. 
I absolutely agree with OP that her fiancé does not do a good job of making her feel like a priority. And speaking from experience if there is no effort to change this before the wedding it will never change. It will seem worse when there are kids in the mix because you will be on your own with them while he is out with friends.
I know not everyone would have a problem with this. Clearly a lot off pp's here think you are "needy" and would not have an issue with your fiancé's style. But you do have an issue with it and it sounds like it might be a deal breaker. Try pre-marital counseling.[/quote]

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