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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't be ok with DH getting drunk on trips. Not something I want in my marriage. I'm fine with him going out for a couple drinks after dinner and getting back to his hotel room at a reasonable hour. But no good comes from getting drunk with coworkers in a strange city.

DH did it once and I had to put the fear of God him- I will not be married to someone who does that, if you want to remain my husband you need to act like my husband, You've Given Me A Lot to Think About- then stayed at a family member's house for a couple days so dH came home to an empty house. I know I'll probably get criticized here for that and people will say DH will divorce me, but I've found enforcing strong boundaries has always improved my relationships. I don't nag or get emotional, I just state my expectations and enforce consequences.

Another option is to arrange for your own night out, put on your sexiest clothes and makeup, and go out with some of your single girl friends. Stay out late and don't check in. You deserve a night of fun too. My own DH suddenly changed his tune when he realized getting drunk and having fun meant I was also allowed to. [/quote]

Psycho[/quote]

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