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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just ignore posts that demand that the poster acknowledge that her child has a disorder rather than a delay or that a neuropsych is needed if a reasonable determination has been made that one is not or that something is MERLD and much better than ASD unless you want to fall into the quagmire on this thread which is the most unhelpful part of this community, that is, one upping in terms of diagnosis, or making sure that everyone elses' child is as or more disabled than your own. Unfortunately, those posters exist and are very active.

A[b]nd then there is chess mom, whose child is brilliant, a model, a prodigy, very social and friendly and you would never ever know he had ASD and they have had more accommodations than anyone else ever even though they apparently never really even needed them and whose child will beat you and everyone else at life and go to an Ivy. 
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Honestly, just ignore posters that are just furthering their own agenda, making posts about their own situation entirely, or have nothing useful to say. There is no "stopping" them.[/quote]

-Chess mom here.  You really have a "thing" for me don't you?  I haven't posted on this thread until now and I don't know why you are attacking me except you have issues that makes you feel better attacking other parents of SN kids.

My child gets a lot of services and accommodations because he is lucky enough to go to a mainstream public school with teachers and admins that cares about their kids with SNs and he was evaluated and got a diagnosis at the school's suggestion that he may have issues in preK.  D[b]S is brilliant (has a very high IQ), modeled as a baby, a chess prodigy, and has an IEP for ASD/ADHD.  Do you have a problem with that[/b]?[/quote]

why on earth would I have a problem with that> IDGAF and neither does anyone else. I have a problem with YOU coming in on literally every thread where parents are worried, anxious, sad, etc., telling us all yet again, in your totally tone deaf way, how brilliant/amazing/accomplished YOUR son is. Do you not see how that is wildly insensitive, esp in certain contexts? I don't think you do, at all, which is why I, unlike you, am not AT ALL surprised that your son has ASD. You clearly have a hard time with social cues and graces and appropriate times to boast.[/quote]

Like I said, I haven't posted on this thread until you address me directly.  :roll: [/quote]

You may think I am boasting but my kid gets amazing supports. [b] I think most parents want to hear about what is possible if schools are willing.[/b][/quote]

I am sure that will be most helpful for all the other model-esque, brilliant, prodigy, Ivy-league bound or bust SN kids out there. I just bet that message resonates with so many. And I am sorry, but you ARE boasting most of the time and it just NOT appropriate. Although your child received supports, I am sure you would be the FIRST to say he would have been successful regardless.  [/quote]

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