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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Their marriage ended. Your mother is no longer responsible for your father and she doesn't owe it to you to take him on. Do what you can for your father to the extent you can, as his child. It's as if he was a widower. This doesn't have anything to do with you mother anymore.[/quote] This. I can't help but see gender expectations at work here. I doubt it would occur to OP to expect her father to help care for her mother post-divorce. Why in the world would your mother volunteer to care for a man she divorced? She owes him nothing.[/quote] So what explains the lack of empathy to her daughter? Does she owe her nothing also? You know since the daughter was the product of the failed marriage, does that make her disposable too?[/quote]
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