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[quote=Anonymous]I just had my own 'dance' with an avoidant end after 10 years. We were long distance off and on as we were trying to start and harmonize our careers often having to relocate to do so. I always followed him of course but as he was an academic he had little control over where he ended up. Thankfully we never did the break up and get back together thing which is why I am sure this break up is final, and I should probably be thankful. In ten years i sashimi cry 3 times, and one was while he broke up with me. It's been 4 weeks and we have only had practical contact, getting own phone plan, electric bills, etc. I made him promise to meet with me in November as he was breaking up with me, I guess hoping he might miss me or change his mind. I know this won't happen and wonder if the closure is even worth having. Would it be best to just let November come and go? We do have to file for divorce as we had a domestic partnership for insurance reasons. But I could always just let him file the paperwork and not contest.[/quote]

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