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[quote=Anonymous][flash][quote=Anonymous]I'm shocked at the posts supporting the husband here.  I would resent having to do the whole evening routine myself, full stop, without DH undoing it.  I would probably call them "my" kids in that situation too.

Maybe an 8:30 bedtime would work and maybe not: with the commutes in this area, lots of people have to get their kids up early.  My 3 yo gets up at 6:10 and we leave the house at 6:45. Her bedtime routine starts at 7:00.[/quote]

But if OP just bumped bedtime back 30 minutes, she wouldn't have to do it one her own. Dad could do bedtime and she would just have bath and dinner.

The kids won't remember their bedtime when they get older nor will going to bed at 8:00 vs 7:30 make a difference in their lives.

However, they will remember not getting to see daddy during the week, and they will remember that dad loves them. I am sure they look forward to seeing him at night OP.

Keep themnup until he gets home OP, then let him do bedtime.[/quote]

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