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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's debasing about making amends and being a loving and trustworthy husband?

You do the crime, you do the time, right? And if this involves allowing the woman you supposedly love to take her time in healing from the damage you did her, it seems to me you're doing the opposite of debasing yourself. You're rising up to take the consequences, act with love and care, and stand by her for as long as it takes.

That does mean both sides have to keep working on it, though, talking with counselors and whatever it takes to get to a point where she can identify, on her side, whether he's killed things for her for good.

If he can't hack it, and feels like tossing her away like a toy he broke and now he can't play with, that's just who he is.

Why not take action in talking to her, finding out why she's still so unhappy, why she's still feeling cold towards you? [/quote]

No not "as long as it takes" when an end date is not looking promising. It's been years. He doesn't owe her forever. If she doesn't it to work, it won't work. Eternal punishment is no way to conduct a marriage. Whoever does it is irrelevant but it sounds like someone needs to pull the plug. [/quote]

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