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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP are you guys very religious?[/quote]

OP here. I would say yes, religious, moderately so at least. That was the reason I married as a virgin, which despite all the virgin shamers out there, I do not regret at all.

I see that maybe he meant better than he said. I was taken aback by the wording. I do sometimes wish I liked sex more but really don't know how to change that. Counseling? Sex therapy? Books? Then sometimes I just don't really care. We did have enough sex to have two kids who I adore. But if we never had sex again, I would be fine with that. [/quote]

You do realize that means you have a low drive, right? I am not shaming you but I am pointing it out so you realize that there are people who have no interest in living without sex for a week, much less for the rest of our lives. It's a lot easier to say you were a virgin for religious reasons, even if true, than to say you are also low drive.[/quote]

Or it could mean she's never had good sex.

OP, sex is fun and intimate and can be a great adventure to go on together.  Work with your husband and make it a mission together to have the best sex ever ... not just for him but for both of you.  Try everything you feel comfortable with and a few things that are a little daring for you.  Find the joy in sex.  And maybe get the book. :)

FWIW, while I definitely had more experience in that department than you before I met my ex, I never really connected sex with desire and fun.  I said the same thing you did about my ex that " I could do without sex."  Fact was that I wasn't that attracted to him and our sex life was all about him and what he wanted and how he wanted it -- even if it was disguised as him thinking about me.  I didn't orgasm the right way.  I didn't enjoy certain acts that he wanted to do for me.  Now I'm with someone that I find crazy attractive and our sex life is perfect for us and keeps getting better.  It's one of the important ways that we bond together.

Good luck OP![/quote]

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