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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your husband has a point, but the way he communicated it negates it almost entirely. If you truly want to reconcile, forgiveness or acceptance is integral to that. I can imagine that he wants to move past his affair, but it sounds like he doesn't understand (willfully or not) what that looks like for you. You don't just "get over it." You don't just go back to being lovey-dovey with each other. He was physically loving to another woman, and it is totally understandable that him being physically loving to you reminds you of that. If you were still recoiling from his touches 3 YEARS later, I would be concerned that you were not processing the situation and that you would not be able to reconcile. It may turn out that you are not able to get past it and reconcile. You have known for three months. Expecting you to be hunky-dory right now is unrealistic and selfish.[/quote]
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