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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH here, stop complaining and tell us exactly what you want to get the Big O! No hinting! [/quote]

Women expect to lay on their back and fireworks go off.  Before you get married make sure your woman can masturbate herself to an orgasm.   Many are unable or unwilling to do this and just blame it on their partner.[/quote]

Yep. In she can't get off without a 20-minute uninterrupted session with a plugged in personal massager, nothing you do will ever fix that.[/quote]

If that's your attitude then I think she should keep the massager and bar you from her bed.  You don't try to get her off?  Why should she try to get you off then?  No, sir. [/quote]

I think he's trying to say, albeit in a crass way, that some women don't know how to get themselves off, so how could a partner possibly know how to? Some women aren't comfortable with their bodies, exploration or communication. That kind of inhibition isn't going to make it easy for a partner to be successful. But then, why are we always looking to men to give us orgasms? It should be a joint effort. [/quote]

Lesbians manage to figure it out.  Straight men are just as capable.  No more excuses.[/quote]

You're an idiot. If you can't give feedback and communicate with your partner, you don't deserve an orgasm. Lesbians have firsthand knowledge of how things feel so it's not a valid comparison. [/quote]

I orgasm every time.  And one of the reasons is because I don't put up with men who are bad in bed.  If you can't get your partner to get off, YOU don't deserve an orgasm or sexual access.  Buck the hell up.[/quote]

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