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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't threaten. Go file a restraining order. If your mother got money from him that was between them. You have no obligation to repay her debts.[/quote] If he had enough documentation to go to Small Claims court, for example (a handwritten note, even evidence of a text and a bank withdrawal timed in step with the request), that would be sufficient for the Executor or Personal Representative to pay out. This assumes that there is enough in the Estate to cover the debt. He would not deal with you, but would have followed your instructions because what you told him is exactly how the process is set up. YOU owe him nothing. That's a fact. Depending on your relationship with whoever's heading the Estate, I'd have them file for a stay away order. It will have more weight. Be done with this idiot. Anyone experiencing a loss like this is bound to have intrusive thoughts and anxiety. Consider yours made manifest by this fool. He is the embodiment of grief. You don't have control over all of the emotional pieces of this experience, but you do have the power to shut this fool down. Please get on that today. I sincerely pray for you and your family (that poor grandmother!!) [/quote]
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