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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So did you tell your husbands that you were changing or did you just change? Do they even realize you changed? I too can't envision how I'd react other than to say "I don't care" and then that would elicit a response from dh[/quote] I just changed, and I don't respond with "I don't care". If I want to make salmon for dinner and he says "I don't want it" then I say "im going to have it, if you don't then you'll have to make a sandwich." If I want to go to the ballet and he doesn't, I just go with one of my kids or a friend. It's not that I've stopped caring completely, I've just started caring less about pleasing him and more about pleasing me. When I didn't do that I started to become very resentful of him and that's a marriage killer. Now we're both much happier.[/quote]
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