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Reply to "Affair at work - post from a few weeks ago"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm surprised the therapist isn't helping you think through the realities of a divorce. You won't be able to buy a 5 bedroom house. Your ex and his ex won't just appear when you want to do grown-up things with the new love and then disappear when you want to do family activities. Your ex will get a new girlfriend, one who may or may not be appropriate for your children to associate with. My personal opinion is that your lover won't leave his wife. How will you feel when you're sitting alone waiting for him to come over? What about when he makes plans to see you only to cancel at the last minute because "Billy really needs help with his science project...you understand right?" To me, this guy sounds like the type who enjoys sneaking around more then he enjoys an honest healthy relationship. I can also guarantee you that you aren't the first. Given that this all got going at work, and he was your supervisor, I wouldn't bet on him remaining faithful to you or protecting his livelihood should the two of you have a relationship that is in the clear. Your therapist is doing you no favors. [/quote]
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