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[quote=Anonymous]I think there is a difference between marrying very young and just typical stages of marriage if you had more experience.  If you married young, you are much more likely to not have tried to figure out what you really wanted in a spouse and married purely for love and/or hormones.  Thus you just might not be as compatible.  If you had more experience, you would be more likely to understand what works in a relationship.

Additionally, and I think this is key, you are less likely to have have gone through that new love phase more than one or two times, so if you experience it later, you might confuse it with someone bring your soulmate or whatever because you haven't gone through that phase several times with different people and seen how it can and usually does morph into the more comfortable, familiar love phase.  People who have gone through the thrill of new relationships and wanting to be with the new person all of the time are less apt to think that similar feelings later on are a sign that they married the wrong person and more cognizant of the fact that that intense feeling is not super abnormal.[/quote]

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