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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you are starting to come across as a bit self-centered. (Not unusual at your age, btw.)  You keep talking about your own thoughts and feelings, but how much thought and weight have you given to how your actions (or more accurately, inactions) made HER feel?  You were cold and standoffish each time while  she was giving you 3 chances to come around.  Now when you finally feel like it, you want her back.   :roll:

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I know, seriously.  OP, this would be HER post here on DCUM

DCUM, please help me figure out if this guy likes me or should I just move on.

I was seeing this guy and we got into a fight and broke up.  It was over something stupid and a few days later I texted him that I was sorry about the fight and it was stupid of me.  He texts back, "Don't worry about it, it's all good."  That's it.  He doesn't ask me out again or ask when we could get together again.  Just an "it's fine" text.

I like him, but I'm not about to chase a guy that isn't showing interest, I wait for him to ask me out again.  About 4 days go by with no text from him.  So I bite the bullet and ask him out.  He responds but says he can't go out and is kind of cold in his texts.  We go back and forth in texts and all his responses are curt.

I give up.  I guess if he really liked me he'd ask me out.  A few weeks go by and I run into his roommate.  He mentions the guy and I figure why not give it one more try.  But I don't want to ask him out again (I learned the first time when I asked him out) so I figured I'd buy him some cute things, inside joke kind of things and make an excuse to leave them at his house.  If he likes me, he'll thank me and ask me out.  If not, well, it's over.

Well, he texts me that he's not home but his roommate got my package.  But then, he casually drops in that he's in my area.  That's it.  No "do you want to get together" no asking me out - nothing.  Like, roommate picked up the package, I'm in Dover, the sky is blue....

So, DCUM, what is going on?  I don't want to chase this guy if he's truly not interested and I reached out like 4 times and he's not asking to see me.  Is he just not interested?

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PP here.  Perfectly said.  And I would reply to her, it's time to move on![/quote]

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