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[quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing: this seems to be all about you and your wants/needs. Just because your husband might not be ready to go when you are doesn't mean he isn't supporting you...have you thought about listening to his needs? Maybe he has a firmer grasp on your family's financial situation and realizes that he can't simply retire when you say so. Maybe his head isn't in la-la land and he recognizes that he simply can't find a comparable job in the area where *you* want to live. Who handles the finances in your house? Regardless of the fact that you both earn a living, who really manages the investments, retirement planning, college planning, etc.? In my house, it's my husband. While nothing would please me more than retiring early to the Cayman Islands, my husband assures me that we can't swing that (now or ever). That doesn't mean I can accuse him of not supporting my wishes. [/quote]
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