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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] So don't move anywhere without your spouse...unless you are fine with getting divorced. And recognize that everyone will blame you since you are the one that left. [/quote] To be honest if the choice were stay and stay married vs. leave and get divorced I would choose divorce. Because within the full context of our life staying IS a choice and his choosing that would mean my wants and needs simply didn't matter in my marriage, and I am not OK living that or modeling it for my kids. But I believe that to be a false choice because my husband actually does care about me and wants me to be happy. So what I take from this is that we need to have some more concrete conversations about structuring things so we can either move sooner or move together when the kids graduate. We do talk about it, but not necessarily about specifics, so I think I need to sit down with him and really get into the details of how we can make this work. [/quote]
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