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[quote=Anonymous]Omg, OP, you may be the most obnoxious, oblivious poster on DCUM, and that says a lot.  I the first kid in my blue-collar family to go to college.  I have an education, but more importantly, I have emotional intelligence.  You, OP, are an emotional ignoramus.

Your family resents your "sage advice."  They do not envy your displays of wealth and your perceived superiority.  They don't envy you.  They don't want to be you.  They don't want to follow in your footsteps.  You repel them.  Your smug self-satisfaction is repulsive in every way.

Here's the best thing you can do for them: shut up.  Stop advising them.  Perversely, they probably never logged in to the online grading system because you suggested it.  If you actually love them and don't just enjoy shoving their faces in the dirt, back off.  If they want what you have - your values - they will follow.  But I reckon you really haven't "displayed" a lifestyle that they actually admire.  You can't be a leader of no one actually wants to follow you.[/quote]

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