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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]ok OP, so you have a low drive.  no biggie.  but some of us have a high drive and also have a spouse with a high drive. is it always 4th of July fireworks every time we have sex, no.  but I'm lucky my DH is a great lover and takes care of my needs first.  so that is just one of many reasons I want to have sex multiple times a week with him - and he's a pretty happy guy.

and we have 3 kids (teens/pre-teens) and both work full-time.[/quote]

High drive high drive marriage here. My spouse is a great lover. [b]However, doesn't much matter. Having sex with the same person 3xs a week is a complete bore [/b]

I love scallops. I don't want to eat scallops for dinner every single night, for the next 20 years, no matter how incredible the diversity of the preparation. I'm sure others would be happy with scallops forever and ever.[/quote]

THIS!!!! Human beings just want new and strange. That's how it is. We (mostly) take it personally but maybe we shouldn't.[/quote]

So what is the solution to this problem? [/quote]

For me? Live the rest of my life out with having sex with the same human being completely taxing my imagination, never actually taking the time to comprehend thw travesty that I will live the rest of this beautiful life and DIE having sex with the same person from here on out.. Lie to myself like the PP and tell myself that sex is like fireworks afyer 20 years which works for a period of time and is cyclical.[/quote]

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