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[quote=Anonymous]As I'm reading over some of the replies back to you, I see a vote in favor of restoration, therapy and life!!! [b]Yes! LIFE!!! [/b]The best gift anyone can receive, and the best gift anyone can give away. I have always believed that the person we become results from three things: how we are born (personality, strengths, talents, skills, tendencies, etc.), the impact of our environment (how people influence and shape our thinking patterns, self worth, and purpose), and the choices we make. You may have become a victim but that does not mean you have to stay one. You do have options that can take you out of this state of mind. The first step is believing it can happen to you personally. All you see right now are the negative affects from things gone wrong. Things you don't have any control over. But there is a way out dear friend, and it begins with believing your future can be better than your past.

You did the right thing by putting yourself in a vulnerable position to let others see your hurt and offer their guidance. That is wonderful, to be surrounded by so may that also believe you have options. If it's any consolation to you, I too was at a crossroads at one point in my life, and felt so low and hopeless. But I knew there were lifeines out there - I just needed to latch onto one. And I did. I learned that since I can't change the circumstances, or change the people who hurt me the most, I can change myself and the person I choose to become. I wanted to change from the inside-out so I could maintain a healthy distance from the root cause of my pain.

There is a group of people I have become aware of that have dedicated their lives to reach out to people in much of the same situation you are in. Before you do anything else, give yourself a chance to be open to what they have to say. Give ourself time to think through your options. Here is that link; http://bit.ly/2bOJ3E1

Please consider this also; God is the author of life and He created you because he loves you and has a plan for your life. Just because we get lost on our journey or take unexpected detours, that doesn't stop God from being able to reach us right where we are. God is so much bigger than all our earthly problems all piled together. He is the God of the universe and cares about you more than your mind can comprehend. Please contact me again if you would like to talk more. I am here for you and want you to know I will be praying for you as yu make some new decisions for your future. Sending you a big huge hug dear friend.[/quote]

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