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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. We're both single right now. He's a really decent guy, I don't want to be harsh or hurt his feelings, but ugh, too much! He's treating me like a girlfriend and am absolutely not his girlfriend. I can't decide if he's just lonely and bored or if he's in to me. If its the latter, I'm getting super uncomfortable and annoyed that he's going to ruin a good friendship.

And he's not at all my type as far as dating goes. I'm not physically attracted to him and while he can be crazy fun, he's also a raging introvert. And has zero interest in having kids. None of these things are things I'm interested in for a potential partner.

Thinking the ignoring is the best route here and hopes he gets the hint. Not the most mature, and definitely passive, but I don't see the direct route as going over well, especially before this trip. [/quote]
This is what we call a Beta orbiter.  He's looking for a way in to your pants by being overly nice thinking that will work. As soon as you disregard his advances get angry and sit there and wonder why Girls don't like nice guys[/quote]

+1000[/quote]

Girls don't have to like betas they are not physically attracted to.  One of his beta buddies probably gave him bad advice.[/quote]

I agree, she should inform him his courting strategy won't work.  Women don't want needy men, much less have sex with them.  [/quote]

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