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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Over the past few years, my husband has gotten more and more racist, homophobic, and misogynistic. He refers to women exclusively as b*tches and c*nts. I am embarrassed to go out in public with him, because he can't get through a trip to the grocery store without using a derogatory ethnic, misogynistic or homophobic slur. He'll both say things in the car (when the target of his comment can't hear him), or he'll say it to their faces. He doesn't care who hears him.

I've asked him to stop repeatedly. I've told him that it embarrasses me. I've told him that it could hurt him professionally, if someone from work hears him. I have reminded him that our preschooler is in the car and can hear him. We're new to the area, and I have told him it may be the reason why we haven't made any friends yet. He continues, if he doesn't get worse.

Last night he told me out of the blue that this country started going downhill when it became illegal to beat your wife and kids. What do I even say in response to that?

I'm getting to the point where I don't think I can go on like this anymore. Even though he isn't saying things directly about me (he has only called me a b*tch when we're arguing), I still feel like he doesn't respect me. And it kills me to know that our child is being exposed to this.

How do I even begin to deal with this?[/quote]

I pity your child.  You let your husband call you a bitch.  You are showing this innocent little one know this is ok behavior [/quote]

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