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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You will never be satisfied. If you force him to tell his family you will find something in how he tells them that you are dissatisfied with. You will not feel like their response is correct. You want your pound of flesh. You will never get what you are looking for. The only option is to forgive and move on. Otherwise it will consume a good portion of your life.[/quote] +1 This poster is right. He will never hurt enough for you to feel like his pain matches yours. If you want your marriage to survive and eventually thrive, you need to accept that. I've been in your shoes and when I realized that (by screaming it at him during a tense conversation) it felt like a weight was lifted. He will never hurt enough for me to believe that he has come close to feeling the pain he caused me.[/quote]
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