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[quote=Anonymous]This was my exact situation a few years ago but I was in your husband's shoes. I cheated and my dh wanted me to tell my family. He felt that it would reconcile their negative feelings towards him over the years and he would get a gold star for staying with me. The reality is that they are my family and would have supported me regardless. I didn't tell and it was very hard for him. The whole thing was devastating for him and I own that. But - now years later, we are in a much better place and have moved on. I am happy that every family dinner doesn't have me thinking I am being judged or he is being chastised for staying. We, together, made the decision (and hard work) to stay together. Hugs - I am sorry...there are no easy answers but know that people can commit to staying and working through it if they choose to.[/quote]
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