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[quote=Anonymous]You don't want them to know. It is natural instinct to want to understand why, why would their son cheat. Why leads to blaming. In our society blame for affairs lies with the wife or the mother. (It's wrong but people are ignorant, eventually smart ones.) So either you are a bad wife or your MIL is a bad mother. This could put her on their defensive and hurt your relationship. You only want professionals and a few close allies to know about the affair, due to ignorance in our society. You are not to home, his mom is not to blame.. He is to blame. He needs to figure out how why he cheated. This will take years, there is no fast track... It sucks. Now you know why people say life/marriage is hard.[/quote]
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