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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I empathize. I was very close with my first MIL. She and FIL said I was like another daughter to them...until my ex wanted a divorce. I completely thought they'd tell him to fight for the marriage - after all, I was like a daughter to them! - but they backed him up completely. And they also immediately took to the new woman he introduced to them. It hurts SO MUCH. But the parents will almost always side with their kid. I'm happily remarried with a young son, and although I hope he never cheats on his future spouse, I'm still going to be on his side of he does. He's my kid. I'll be supporting HIS emotional recovery, not his spouse's. I understand your feelings. You're hurting and you should own that hurt. But at some point, you'll have to choose to forgive even if he hasn't experienced what you've gone through, or you'll have to split up. A public shaming won't benefit either of you. Many hugs to you. [/quote]
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