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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi,

OP here.  Thank you to all for your responses, they are very helpful.  What I am trying to share here is that I don't think this sexless marriage will change so I am not really looking for ways to try to change it if that makes sense. I am at the point of either finding some strategies to manage this situation for myself emotionally-the goal of this thread- or pack up the marriage and quit-where I do not think I am at yet.

I am not really seeking out guidance on how to get sex back, I have spent a lot of time and energy on that in the past to no avail.  I am really looking to see if there is anyone that has suggestions on how I can manage this situation internally, not reasons for it or how to change it if that makes sense.

Appreciated![/quote]

I don't think that is really plausible; there is no substitute for sex for most men.  All you are really going to be able to do is distract yourself, temporarily, from how bad the situation is making you feel.  That path ends in you checking out of the marriage, as it sounds like you are already starting to do.  It's more rational to try to change the situation if there are levers you have not yet pulled to do so (counseling being the most plausible), or just cut bait now. The current situation is just not sustainable, IMO, and I don't think there are really any techniques to make it so.  [/quote]

This is true...it will only work for a few months...the you'll cheat or divorce [/quote]

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