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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My goodness.

I am not sure where some posters got that my husband asked me to abandon a friend. First of all she is a casual friend and secondly he asked me to distance myself from her and the situation not go no contact and shun her. He didn't demand that I never speak to her again. He simply told me that he was distancing himself from his coworker because he finds him disgusting and mentioned I should do the same with the situation.

She is away this week moving her oldest into college. When she returns I intend to tell her what I know, which my husband fully supports and offered to be there but I feel it is best just coming from me. While I would never turn away a friend I am also not this woman's best friend or even in her close circle so yes, I intend to distance myself from what will likely be both a volatile and hopefully private situation.

I know the relationship forum just loves to say that every husband is cheating. Thank you for your concern. My love is my best friend and a good man and I don't have a single worry or doubt. [/quote]

I got the idea that your husband asked you to abandon your friend because you said, in your title no less, that your husband wants you to break off the friendship. My hair is brown. My goodness , where did you ever get the idea that I have brown hair?!

I don't get why people say your dh is cheating either, though. [/quote]

My mistake for using "break off a friendship" instead of "distance myself from a friendship" in the title since it was long enough already but it was right in the body of the post. I said "my goodness" because as I read post after post it just got worse like playing a game of telephone. No where did I say he said to abandon her or kick my best friend when she was down or whatever other "facts" posters were making up as it went along.[/quote]

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