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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't they plan to have kids that is weird and she doesn't work [/quote]

Op here and I don't know why they don't want kids. I've tried to ask, but all I get is they have thought about it and decided it's not for them. [/quote]

OP, maybe they did and have fertility issues.  I've known plenty women who haven't wanted to discuss fertility issues with their in-laws.

Seriously, OP, you really sound so full a judgement.  Maybe your DIL is trying to figure out what to do with her life.  Maybe some dark stuff that you don't know about happened in her past.  Why not just try being a friend and be supportive.  Stop hinting and asking questions.  Friends don't have to do this.  Accept her for who she is and maybe she'll blossom.[/quote]

+1.  I really have to agree with this advice OP.  You are making assumptions about why she doesn't work.  Maybe she has anxiety herself and this is how she manages it.  Maybe she has a physical issue she doesn't want to share.  Maybe she is working on writing a book.  Maybe your son is turned on by being the sole provider and she goes along with it because the sex is awesome.  Maybe you really don't want to know the reason!  If they're happy and this works for them, leave it alone.  I agree with PP to accept her for who she is.  [/quote]

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