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Reply to "DH says he wants to quit his job....and just take time off"
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[quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you can afford for him to retire, and he's burnt out. He definitely shouldn't keep working just to buy you baubles. That's nutters. If it were my spouse, I would worry about: - his ability to get back to work if he decides he hates it or you have large, unexpected expenses. But honestly, it sounds like you have the assets to cover almost any unexpected expense. - his plans for his time. does he have some hobby or interest? or just plan on figuring that out later? A lot of people get super-depressed at retirement, realizing that they have little outside of work to keep them productive. He should put in some effort to try to make a plan his "time off" or retirement. Is the issue that YOU don't want to keep working? Why are you? Can you cut back your hours and enjoy his retirement or timeoff a bit? Is there a compromise solution whereby you both keep working one more year or so to reach X financial goal and then retire together?[/quote]
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