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Reply to "Husband won't let me comfort him. I don't know what to do."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Back off and let him grieve, OP. Plenty of people grieve his way. It takes time. A month is nothing. And it's a gradual process, with setbacks. Every time you come at him you interfere and halt his process because you're being needy. You feel a need to comfort him and you feel a need to interact with him when what HE needs is time to just be left with his thoughts and feelings so he can move on in the grief process. I understand his point of view, because my husband is needy like you. When I've had to grieve, I've had to keep escaping his attempts to "make me feel better" which were really about him feeling uncomfortable with my perfectly normal sadness and grief. [/quote] Can you read? Op has said more than once she has only done what HE asked her to do! Op is also rightly concerned about her husband. Stop projecting your marital issues on to her.[/quote]
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