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[quote=Anonymous]OP I would tell the truth. You married your DH 30 years ago and, having been around then, I know other bi or gay people who have come out since then, who married because they just wanted to fit in. Things were not as open as they are today, and I know a few people who were really hurt by this. But, the one guy I know who made peace with who he is, got divorced, and kept on going has done well. If you have children or close family members or very close friends they deserve to know the truth. A lot of things may make more sense to them. I would not post why you are divorcing on Facebook or anything, or annouce it to the entire church (or whatever) but you deserve to tell family members or close friends the truth. Just...would not go about it as " a plan to out him"...more like, well, this is why I am getting divorced from my husband who lied to me for 30 years. [/quote]
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