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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I know this is hard to hear but they are divorced. She is not his mistress anymore, he is free and clear to have a girlfriend. You don't know the true story about your parents, because there is no truth. It's just their perceptions and feelings and justifications and behaviors, and how you see that. Maybe in 20 years when you have been married that long and see how hard and complex it is, you might feel differently and realize they were just people in a bad marriage. I say this as someone in a similar situation as you but with 20 years behind me. I understand know how, say, not having sex for 5 years is a major issue. And how finances and kids affect choices. Like how blowing up a marriage could destroy my kids college funds. Things like that. And I understand how affairs happen. I'm not trying to tell you what to do, just offering a perspective on the realities of 2 imperfect and flawed people being married. Which is all of us married people at the end of the day. [/quote] It does not matter how bad the marriage is. His father is lying to him. He asked his father for a favor and his father lied and refused to grant him a favor. You see the marriage is over but there is still a father son relationship and the father is not honoring that relationship. This has nothing to do with the marriage. This has something to do with the father honoring his son's wishes. His father is divorced, he is welcome to have 20 girlfriends actually, but the son does not have to invite them to his wedding. Why can't people stand on their own 2 feet, ever. [/quote] I disagree.[/quote] We can agree to disagree. But if you lie to me, you are not invited to my wedding. Man up, admit your mistake, move on. But the lies just keep it going. A good man chooses his son over his newest girlfriend. [/quote]
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