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[quote=Anonymous]As someone who has survived an EA -- and I suspect it was a PA, though that has been denied, though believe me, trust gets blown to Mars after this -- I can say letting go and finding forgiveness is the only hope. Forgiveness is NOT the same as condoning, or being fine with what happened. Forgiveness is for yourself, and trying to make yourself feel better. We both acknowledge the role we played in our marriage deteriorating, but the EA/PA is 100 percent on the betrayer. 100. Percent. Like an alchoholic, I feel like we hit rock bottom and are on the long path of recovery. It's not easy, it's not fun, it's not pleasant. But we are working on it. Somewhere, deep in the pain, there is mutual love. And as others have said, anyone who has an EA/PA is in a lot more internal pain than they want to admit.[/quote]
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